Take responsibility

People spend too much time finding other people to blame, too much energy finding excuses for not being what they are capable of being, and not enough energy putting themselves on the line, growing out of the past, and getting on with their lives. - J. Michael Straczynski

As long as we believe that someone else is to blame for our problems/difficulties, we are powerless to change. Forgiving helps us take back our power. Letting go of blame allows us to take responsibility for our lives. Forgiveness is an act of self-kindness. Choosing now to heal old unfinished business, completes the past. It’s time to surrender your pain and set yourself and others free. This will change the course of your life. All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame others, it will not change you.